You are two months into dating a guy you met on a dating app. He has everything you like in a man – tall, handsome, and funny.
However, you suspect he’s been lying about having a girlfriend, but you aren’t sure.
In this post, I will share with you four ways you can tell a guy is lying about having a girlfriend.
He Only Comes to Your House.
One thing men do when they have a girlfriend is come to your house to see you. Coming to your house isn’t an issue early into dating, but if he only comes to your house and hasn’t taken you to his home, and you’ve been dating him for a few months – it’s a problem.
To confirm your suspicions, call him and ask if you can come to his place to watch a movie on Netflix or cook a meal for him. And see how he responds. Does he act suspicious and come up with an excuse – why coming to his house isn’t a good idea? Or is he excited to have you over?
If it’s the former, your suspension is correct. He’s in a relationship with his live-in girlfriend.
You Never See Him on Holidays.
Another sign your man has a girlfriend is if you never see him during essential holidays. You’ve been dating your man for two years and never shared Valentine’s day, Thanksgiving, Christmas, or New Year’s together.
This is suspicious.
If your man goes silent during the holidays, it’s because he has a girlfriend or wife with whom he’s sharing the holiday. Holidays are when guys want to be with their significant other the most.
Unfortunately, if you’re alone on the holiday, your man isn’t your man. He has a girlfriend or wife in his life.
His Phone is Always on Silent Around You.
Another sign a guy is lying about having a girlfriend is whenever you’re with this guy; his phone is always on silent.
A guy having his phone on silent isn’t necessarily causing concern. But if he keeps his phone on silent, does not take calls in front of you, and does not lay his phone down around you – this is concerning.
When a guy is hiding having a girlfriend, he will keep his phone silent because his other girlfriend could call him anytime he is with you, and he doesn’t want you to know.
A simple way to test a guy is to ask if you can use his phone to take a picture of something, make up something to take a picture of, and tell him that you want to use his phone because his phone’s camera is better.
Please pay attention to his reaction. Is he comfortable giving you his phone, or is he hesitant and refuses? If he’s reluctant, it’s because he has something on his phone he doesn’t want you to see, like pictures of his girlfriend.
He Can Only Talk to You at Certain Times.
This is one of the most significant signs a guy is lying about having a girlfriend. If you’re seeing a guy that only talks to you during business hours, he has a girlfriend.
When you meet someone new and exciting, you want to communicate with that person as often as possible. But when the guy you’re dating has a girlfriend that lives with him, he can only talk to you at certain times – when he’s at work.
If you are dating a man that only calls you during the day, it’s because he is hiding a girlfriend or wife. He can’t talk to you when he’s home with his girlfriend or wife.
The Takeaway
Some guys will try to lie about having a girlfriend or being in a relationship. Yet, if you remember these four ways men hide having a girlfriend:
- He Only Comes to Your House.
- You Never See Him on Holidays.
- His Phone is Always on Silent Around You.
- He Can Only Talk to You at Certain Times.
You will not fall for his lies. Now it’s time for you to apply what you’ve learned and eliminate men wanting to date multiple women.
If you liked this post, check out “Why Guys Lie About Their Relationship Status” and learn why men in relationships lie about their relationship status.
