When a man is attracted to you, he will go to any length to have sex with you. That means he will attempt to persuade you into getting intimate. There are several ways men manipulate women for intimacy that women often fall for.
In this article, I will share The 6 Ways Men Manipulate Women for Sex.
1. Men Will Make You Feel Heard.
Women talk more than men and enjoy talking about their feelings. This is how women build connections and bonds, especially when a crisis strikes.
Men know this and will use this characteristic of women to their advantage with success.
Suppose you’re dealing with a crisis in your life, death, loss of a job, anything that’s stressing you.
You wear your heart on your sleeve, so you go out to take your mind off the issue. And you meet a nice guy that makes you feel comfortable.
You begin to talk, and you enjoy his company. He provides solutions to your problem, but more importantly, he makes you feel heard.
Before you know it, you give him your number, and you share more about yourself with him. You feel connected to the guy, and just like that, you’re intimate with him, just as he planned.
2. Guys Will Tell You They Don’t Want a Relationship.
Guys that are being honest, or what seems to be honest, when they tell women they’re not interested in a relationship are actually using reverse psychology.
What’s actually going on is the guy wants you to pursue him. This is a hard-to-get tactic.
What this strategy does is make you desire him. We all are drawn to people we cannot have.
So, when he tells you he doesn’t want a relationship, hoping you will think to yourself, “he doesn’t want a relationship right now.”
“But once he sees how well I treat him and how good my sex is, he’ll change his mind.”
This is precisely what he wants. YOU TO QUALIFY YOURSELF BY GIVING HIM SEX.
This game is highly effective, so many women fall for this. You assume the man is being honest, and you appreciate his honesty.
This isn’t about honesty; it’s sex with you.
3. Men Will Invite You to Their House on the First Date.
Netflix and chill. This approach works well for men when guys know you like them.
When men know you’ve been crushing on them hard, they will take advantage of you.
A guy will see how much you like him by giving you minimal effort. Instead of taking you on an actual date, your crush will invite you to his house.
For example, you finally gathered the nerve to talk to the guy you’ve been crushing hard on. He gets your number, and he calls you.
Because you’re captivated by this guy, it’s hard for you to see that he’s full of it.
The guy thinks, “I want to see how much this girl likes me. Instead of spending money on a date, I’ll invite her to my place to see if we make out or have sex.”
By accepting his invitation, you fall into his trap.
4. They will invade your personal space.
When a guy invades your personal space, he’s attempting to sexualize you. He wants to build desire in you for him.
Here’s how this works. Suppose you’re out at a club with friends and meet a guy. He chats you up, and you’re engaged in the conversation.
The two of you isolate yourself from your friends in the club’s corner. This is when the guy starts to sit a little too close.
He isn’t rude or aggressive. Just all up in your space and a little handsy.
Some men act this way to plant the seed of you having sex with him in your head.
The guy’s aim is for you to get comfortable with him in your space so that you will, eventually, sleep with him.
5. A Man Will Tell You What You Want to Hear.
Men know women want to hear 3 things from them, I want a relationship with you, I love you, and Will you marry me?
So many men game women by telling them what they want to hear.
If you have ever dated a man that told you he was in love with you a little too fast. He wasn’t actually in love with you; he just told you what he thought you wanted to hear.
It worked if you felt butterflies when he said it and eventually slept with him.
The next time you meet a guy that’s a little too quick to commit or tell you he loves you, take a few steps back to discern what he’s doing.
Does he really know enough about you, in 6 months, to want to marry you?
See his manipulation for what it is as a way to get into your pants.
6. A Guy Will Take You Out for Drinks.
Whenever a guy asks you out for Drinks, he tries to get you drunk.
He’s hoping you, in your drunken state, will give into your inhibitions.
Often a man will ask you out for a drink because he wants the alcohol to lead to sex.
Several guys think women want sex just as much as men but only need an excuse to put out.
These guys believe alcohol gives women this excuse. Did you sleep with that guy from last night? Just blame it on the alcohol.
Ladies think a guy won’t look at them differently for getting intimate after a night of drinking.
But to a man, this was the plan. Get you drunk, which gives you an excuse to have sex with him.
You get to save face because it was the alcohol that made you do it.
The Takeaway
Again, there are several ways men manipulate women for intimacy that women often fall for.
Men will make you feel heard, use reverse psychology by telling you they don’t want a relationship, invite you to their house, invade your personal space, tell you what you want to hear, and get you drunk.
Now that you know the 6 ways men use to manipulate you use what you’ve learned from this post.
Please check out my article Why Men Play With a Woman’s Feelings if you enjoyed this post. And learn the 4 reasons why men play with women’s emotions.
