Yes, there are tons of great singles guys on Dating Apps. The problem most women have with dating sites is attracting great candidates.
Yet, women aren’t necessarily building profiles that attract quality men. Guys want to meet and date fun women.
If you don’t seem like someone fun on your dating profile, you’re missing out on meeting great men.
This article will show you the 5 easy ways to set up your profile to attract good guys.
Show Your Personality in Your Profile
When I was single, and on dating apps, I was always drawn to women that added their personalities to their online descriptions.
It’s not enough to say you have a great sense of humor. Show it. Funnily describe yourself.
If you’re clumsy, don’t tell me you’re clumsy. SHOW ME. Describe a time when your clumsiness was on full display.
Women that are willing to show their personality are exciting and authentic.
Don’t Say What You Don’t Want.
If you have been online dating for a while, you’ve had a few bad experiences. Don’t allow those negative experiences to influence what you say in your profile.
Guys don’t want to see that you don’t date men shorter than 6 feet in your description. Or you only date men with a muscular body.
Many men will assume you to be a negative person ( an unattractive quality), and you’ll open yourself up to criticism and rude messages.
Stay positive. You’ll attract more men.
Don’t Give Too Much Information.
Keep this in mind when you write your online description, men are visual. We don’t want to have to read a novel when a summary is all we need.
In other words, we don’t need to know everything about you. An easy-to-read paragraph is more than enough of a description. Keep it short.
Finish Strong
Say something that makes you sound fun and exciting.
For example, using the clumsy description from before. You can finish your profile by saying, “If you don’t mind picking up after me occasionally, I would love to hear from you!”
Or, if you love video games and your really good at Call of Duty, you could say, “If you’re into video games and don’t mind losing to me in Call of Duty, send me a message!”
The idea is to give a guy a reason to message you, a call to action.
Have Pictures (The 3 Most Important Pics)
When it comes to pictures, don’t overdo it. Men are more visual than women, but that doesn’t mean loading your profile with 10 or 12 photos of yourself.
It’s better to have 3 to 5 unfiltered pictures. Below are the 3 most essential pictures to have in your profile.
One headshot image should be your primary profile image and should clearly show your face looking into the camera.
The following picture should be a full-body image. Every guy wants to know what your body looks like. Guys will want to see what you’re working with, whether thick or small.
Lastly, a group picture. Guys just want to see if you’re social and have a tribe. Someone who doesn’t have any friends may have relationship issues.
Takeaway
There are several good men on dating apps. However, many women are missing out because their online profiles repel great candidates.
In this post, I showed you 5 ways to attract good guys online with these simple profile tips:
- Show Your Personality in Your Profile
- Don’t Say What You Don’t Want
- Don’t Give Too Much Information
- Finish Strong
- Have Pictures ( The 3 Most Important Pics)
Now that you know how to set up your online dating profile to attract great guys, it’s time to apply what you’ve learned.
Set up a great profile and start attracting quality men. Lower quality men will be drawn, but filter those guys out by blocking or not responding to their messages.
You want quality over quantity!
Please check out my article Online Dating Etiquette: Rules Women Should Follow if you enjoyed this post.
And learn the 5 rules women should follow when online dating.
