When you really like someone, you naturally want them to like you back. When we talk about attraction, you need to remember that there are different types of it. Being able to attract a man emotionally is powerful.
While physical attraction is a major, and important component of a relationship- it is the emotional attraction that really matters in creating a long-lasting connection with a man.
In fact, emotional intimacy transcends everything else and builds the most solid foundation between two people.
If you really like a man and want things to progress in a serious direction, you need to have an emotional bond with him. This can happen naturally when you interact with him and there is a spark between the two of you. But this isn’t always the case, you need to understand how to trigger emotional attraction in men.
You may think this is hard and feel completely clueless about what to do. It’s not!
If you want to know how to attract a man emotionally, keep reading. Here are some ways you can create a deep emotional connection with a man:
Share: Open Up With Him to get him emotionally attracted.
Tell him about the deepest and most inner parts of yourself. Rather than only talking about the day you had, tell him more about you.
Being vulnerable is intimidating – you’re putting your heart on the line without knowing how your man will respond. However, by confiding in your man and showing him the core of who you are, you will make him feel special.
Don’t treat him like an acquaintance, treat him like a confidante, someone who you are close with, and can trust.
When you open up to him on such a deep level, this is a huge step in building a solid relationship with him. Also, this will let him know that he can be vulnerable with you too.
If you are willing to open up and share yourself with him, he will open up to you as well. Your act of sharing will build an emotional connection.
Be his safe place
Men are not as tough as they like to appear to be. We all have a vulnerable side that we mostly keep hidden from the world. To attract a guy emotionally, you need to let your man know that you are his safe place.
He should feel safe to let his guard down with you. You have to give him an outlet and a shoulder to place his head-on.
When your boyfriend is with you the time spend together should be judgment-free. Nothing severs a connection with a man quicker than pointing out his flaws and making him feel uncomfortable.
Instead, build him up and don’t be afraid to ask him how he feels. You have to encourage him to express himself, his worries, and all of his feelings with you.
Men need comfort too. And you need to be the person who gives him that.
Listen to him with interest, show him you care, and always give him the emotional support he needs.
Show him affection
Simply touching or caressing your man can help the two of you bond even better emotionally. Sexual contact is also important – it builds bonds, men feel more attracted and closer to their women.
However, for a truly emotional and wholesome connection, you two need to cozy up together, snuggle, hug, and embrace each other. Mindfully caress your man.
When you hug your man, relax your muscles and melt into him – nuzzle his neck and pat his chest. Invite him to touch you as well by guiding his hand to your neck or chest. Slowly move in his direction and melt into his arms.
By showing him you adore him, he will warm up to you even more.
Have shared experiences – Do things together to emotionally attract him to you.
The most important way to attract a guy emotionally is to share special experiences with him. If the man you’re seeing is into motorcycles and enjoys riding his bike every weekend. Ask him to take you for a ride.
Once you start making memories together, you will automatically build an emotional bond with him. And we are not just talking about going on dates here. Become an active participant in his hobbies and share your interests with him.
Go on adventures together. Explore different places. Meet people and make new friends. The more activities you do together, the more you will naturally feel closer to each other and build a meaningful relationship.
Always make him feel good
A man wants someone in his life who helps him feel good about himself. You should compliment him when you can, give him advice wherever needed, and help him relax when he is stressed.
Furthermore, you should be the person who gives him a boost of positivity in his life. When you become a good influence in your mans’ life, he will form an emotional attraction with you that may even last forever.
Doing any or all of the above will not guarantee you’ll trigger an emotional connection with a man. But these steps will open you to creating bonds with men that go further than just the superficial.
If you are willing to share with him, be his safe place, show affection, share experiences, and make him feel good. You’ll astound yourself with the deep emotional connection you create in a guy.
Now that you know how to attract a man emotionally. Check out my post, The 3 Qualities Good Men Look For in a Woman. And find out if you have the qualities men look for in a woman.
