You want him to want you. You need him to need you.
But sooner or later, you might find out that he’s not interested in a relationship at all.
So, learn the signs and avoid wasting your time on someone who’s ultimately distant and indifferent.
How to tell if a guy really wants you?
Men are simple creatures, generally speaking. That means you can usually tell right away if he wants anything to do with you.
In fact, these are some of the most commonly missed hints that he wants you bad:
- He reaches out to spend time with you instead of making plans on his own.
- He looks you in the eye when he speaks and smiles when he sees your face.
- His walking pace always matches yours when you’re together.
- He’s always offering to do things for, with, or because of you.
- His friends and family often leave you alone because they know his true feelings for you.
If you don’t miss these hints when they’re first dropped, then you increase your chances of making a meaningful connection when the time is right.
You also reduce your chances of getting put in the Friend Zone where love and lust go to die.
But even if he wants you bad, he still might not do any of these things because all men are different.
4 signs he’s not that into you
Suppose your guy friend isn’t doing the things mentioned above.
In that case, he could either be A) really terrible at relationships, B) incapable of showing his real emotions, or C) just not that into you.
So, let’s take a look at some of the most significant red flags before deciding:
He doesn’t try to get to know the details of your life.
A guy who isn’t ready for a relationship with you might avoid serious conversations or say “no thanks” when he’s invited to family get-togethers.
He’ll listen to what you have to say but will seldom ask leading questions for more information.
If I’m interested in a woman, I want to know everything about her. I want to know about her childhood, her favorite movie, her favorite music artist…etc. I want to know who she is as a person.
If a guy isn’t trying to get to know you, then he isn’t into you.
He flirts with other people a lot then he doesn’t want you.
Men who flirt or talk intimately with several other people are usually not looking for a committed relationship with anybody.
Instead, they’re more interested in playing the field because they’ve yet to find that special someone.
Additionally, guys who flirt with many women are not yet mature enough to commit to one woman.
That is okay.
It just means he isn’t looking for what you are offering and doesn’t want anything serious with you.
His schedule never makes room for quality time.
Guys who aren’t interested in a relationship will busy themselves doing everything but nurturing the connection.
They’ll continually be distracted by something, or they’ll prioritize other things in front of the relationship.
Yet, a man that wants to be with you will make room for you in his schedule, no matter how busy his life gets.
Men make room for the things we want. So if he isn’t making you a priority, it’s because he’s not interested in anything serious.
His friends and family don’t try to bond with you.
Men often consult with their closest friends and relatives when considering a relationship. The results of that exchange are usually noticeable in the way his posse treats you.
So, if they’re cold and distant, he’s probably not looking for love. This is one of many signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you.
The Takeaway
Men are not difficult to understand. They’re just not always blatant about their intentions in a relationship. Therefore, it’s essential to learn the signs of non-commitment, so you don’t waste your precious time.
Now that you know the signs when a man isn’t into you. Read my post “5 Signs a Man Is Attracted to You” and learn what to look for when a man is into you.
