Want to know the signs that a guy is committed to you?
What if you could tell in a short period of time if that man you’re seeing is willing to move the relationship to the next level?
Can you imagine the amount of time you would save yourself – dating men with serious intentions for you versus the ones playing?
Here are 7 signs he is ready to commit to you.
He listens to you.
Most men are stubborn – when we’ve made our minds up about something it’s impossible to change it.
However, if your man comes to you for advice and considers your opinion when he’s faced with a dilemma, this is a sign he values your opinion and is committed to your relationship.
Strong-willed men only listen to women they admire and are committed to. If he listens to you when faced with a crisis or a problem in your relationship – he is committed to you.
On the other hand, a man that doesn’t ask for your opinion on issues or listens to you – does not want anything serious with you. He won’t commit.
For example, if you’ve shared with your boyfriend how you love the smell of mahogany coconut candles from Bath & Body Works – because the scent fills your home.
Plus, your birthday is coming up and the candles would make a great gift. But your man buys you flowers as a birthday gift instead.
If a man doesn’t value your opinion, he will not value you.
He’s committed if he plans dates or time to see you.
When a woman catches the eye of a man, he’ll be eager to spend time with her.
You can determine a man’s intentions for you by the amount of effort he puts into planning dates with you.
For instants, if you are asked out by a guy and he takes you out to dinner and a movie – he may be looking for a casual relationship. Dinner and a movie doesn’t require much effort and isn’t likely to impress you.
However, if a man asks you out and prior to the date he calls you and he finds out you’re interested in marine biology and you love Italian food. And he takes you to swim with dolphins and dinner at the best Italian restaurant in town.
This guy has serious intentions for you because he has put in the extra effort to find out your interests and planned a date that you would love. He has serious intentions for you and he will be committed to you.
He is willing to take it slow or at your pace.
Men aren’t usually known to move a relationship slowly, especially if we are seeing an attractive woman. The sooner we can progress the relationship to intimacy the better.
But when a man wants something serious and committed he will take it slow. That is because we recognize the value you’ve provided us and we don’t want to mess things up by moving the relationship too fast to push you away.
Just know that he is taking things slow because he thinks you are perfect for him and you are the woman of his dreams.
He talks about the future with you.
If you’ve been with a guy and he doesn’t make future plans with you – like taking a trip or going to an event 6 months or a year in the future. He may not be thinking of being with you in the future.
Men that are serious about a commitment will talk about the future with you in mind. If he has asked you to attend his brother’s wedding – that is next year or in the next 6 months- he sees you in his future.
You’re a priority to him.
Men love spending time with their friends, it’s nothing better than being with the fellows – having guy talk.
But when a man is ready for a commitment, he will make you the most important person in his life. He will even prefer going out with you than spending time with his friends.
That is because you are his priority – he is invested in your relationship.
He introduces you to his friends and family.
This is the single most important signal a man can give a woman that he wants to commit to her. If a man introduces you to his friends and family – particularly his mother – he wants a serious relationship with you.
When a guy brings you around the most important people in his life his intentions for you are serious. He thinks you’re an amazing woman and worthy of committing to. He now wants to bring you around his friends and family to see what they think of you.
So, when your boyfriend brings you to meet his family – he will want to see how you mesh with them. He’ll ask himself: Does she get along with my family? Can you handle the personalities of my friends? Or does she like my children?
If he is bringing you home to meet his mother, he wants to commit to you.
He is Consistent
A quick and easy way to know if your guy wants a commitment with you is by his consistency.
A man that is ready to commit will be consistent with you. He will never flake on you nor vanish on you for days or weeks at a time. He will call you regularly and will see you often.
A guy that’s inconsistent with you isn’t interested in anything serious. He only wants to be with you casually. If he is consistent, he’ll be committed.
