Is there a man you like and are wondering if he likes you back? Or maybe, there is someone in your circle who you feel is into you?
It’s natural to get a certain feeling from someone and not be sure if your gut is right.
However, men are not very complex; they usually act in a universal, biological way. It is actually relatively easy to know when a man is crushing on you.
You just need to look out for some signs, and you will know if he is going head over heels for you.
Let’s take a look at the main hints when a man IS attracted to you and totally smitten by you:
Casually making physical contact with you is a sign a man is attracted to you
When a man likes you, he is going to make physical contact with you in many instances.
And no, it does not have to be sexual. If a guy is attracted to you, he would naturally brush up against you, put his hand on your arm or shoulder, or make ‘accidental’ physical contact.
Men are simply hardwired to do this when they have feelings of attraction for someone. So, this is one of the signs you need to look out for.
Lingering eye-contact
Eye contact is one of the most natural and popular ways of creating a connection with someone.
In fact, we’re all more likely to look in the eyes of someone we really like. If you’ve noticed this man stare into your eyes more often, this is a massive hint that he is into you.
When they gaze at you, it gives off a certain vibe, confidence, and adoration that makes their interest even more apparent.
But not all guys are confident enough to do this. If the man is the shy type, he will do the opposite. You would notice him breaking eye contact repeatedly, blushing, and being self-conscious.
Keeping the conversation going
Guys are usually very easily distracted.
But if a particular man keeps initiating contact with you and then makes a conscious effort to keep continuing the conversation forward, chances are he is into you.
You will also notice him taking a lot of interest in whatever you say. He’ll constantly try to know you better, and his overall demeanor would scream “I’m into you” while you talk.
If a man is constantly complimenting you he’s attracted to you
Whether he is prepared to say it or blurts it out, a man complimenting you is one of the significant signs that he is attracted to you.
If he finds you beautiful and says it, you better be sure that he is dropping ‘not so subtle hints.
Plus, he would suddenly start appreciating specific things like the shoes or scarf you’re wearing or your hairstyle.
He is actually expressing his interest to you and showing you how much he notices.
A Guy wanting you to himself means he is attracted to you
Men have a tendency to get competitive when they like someone. And most of the time, this gets pretty obvious.
Suppose you notice him acting tense or extra-protective about you when other guys are around. In that case, this is a significant sign he likes you.
He might also seem jealous when you mention other men to him. Whether he plays it extra-cool or does look bothered, you can tell that he actually likes you and wants you to himself.
When a guy likes you, you will know sooner or later. And if he is acting in the different ways we mentioned, he is most likely attracted to you. If you like him back, it’s time to reciprocate!
Understanding the signs guys give when they are attracted to you is excellent. But just because a man is attracted to you doesn’t mean he is serious about you.
If you want to know if a guy is serious about you or just playing, you read my post titled: Is He Serious About Me or Just Playing.
After reading this post, you will understand why players hide their feelings.
Also, you will understand how a guy’s words and actions are in alignment when he is serious about you and questions to ask a man to reveal his true intentions.
