You’re in great shape and pretty, and all your friends tell you how attractive you are – saying your girl-next-door look is a turn-on to guys.
Several women talk about being approached by men in public, but guys don’t come to them. You’ve seen men check you out, but none of them ever introduce themselves.
What’s the deal?
In this post, I will share 5 tips to help you become more approachable to men.
Put a Smile on Your Face
No man wants to talk to or approach a woman with a frown on her face. I don’t think women understand how intimidating it is for men to walk up to a woman he’s interested in and ask for her number.
If you don’t think approaching someone is difficult, try walking up to an attractive guy – you don’t know – and start a conversation with him. Your nerves can freak you out.
However, it’s less intimidating when the person you’re approaching has a smile on their face. When you smile, you look more approachable. Guys will be drawn to speak with you because a smile is an open invitation to approach you.
Dress Nice, But Don’t Over Do It
Believe it or not, how you can make yourself more or less approachable with men? Wearing an outfit that’s a little risqué is acceptable at a nightclub, but the same outfit isn’t appropriate to wear grocery shopping.
Additionally, few quality men will approach you if you wear your sexy outfit while running errands. People are intimidated by attractive people. Your sexy style – and the casual grocery store environment – is probably too much for many men.
So, dress to highlight your best qualities but appropriately for the situation. The jeans that make your butt look great can be worn to the grocery store instead of the lace stockings.
Give Plenty of Eye Contact.
If you’re an attractive woman and haven’t been approached by men, you need to make more eye contact.
Eye Contact is one of the best ways to get a guy to notice you. We can all feel when someone is watching us. When a guy sees you looking at him, he’ll think you find him attractive. And he will want to speak with you or ask you out.
Eye Contact can also be intimidating for women because it only works if you can maintain eye contact for 3 to 5 seconds. This can be scary for shy women.
But if you can maintain eye contact and give a guy a smile, you will get more men to approach you.
Don’t Be Afraid to Initiate the Conversation
I don’t mean you have to ask a guy for his number. It would be best if you started a conversation with a guy to create an opening for him to get your number.
Suppose you notice a handsome guy while running errands. You’ve seen him, but he hasn’t noticed you yet. What you can do is ask him a question.
For example, if he’s buying lasagna noodles, ask him how to prepare lasagna and if he has any tips he can share with you for the perfect 3-layer lasagna.
You’re hoping he segues into getting your number or asking you out.
Don’t Use Your Friends Like a Force Field
It’s difficult for men to approach women when you’re out with a group of friends. Most times, when men approach women with their friends, men have to be engaging with you and your friends.
It’s intimidating enough to engage you – your friends – is a considerable challenge. Many of your friends don’t want to see you hurt, so their defenses will be up – making a difficult task more arduous.
Instead of being with your friends, break away to give a man an opportunity to approach you without your friends being around.
The Takeaway
In this post, you learned How to be More Approachable to Men by:
- Putting a Smile on Your Face
- Dressing Nice But Not OverDoing it
- Giving Eye Contact
- Initiating Conversations
- Not Using Friends as a Shield
Now that you’ve learned how to be More Approachable, it’s time to apply what you’ve learned and enjoy the attention you get from the men that come up to you.
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