You’re drawn to men that attract lots of attention from women. He is the type of guy that doesn’t leave the club without a woman on his arm. You’re attracted to players.
Your last boyfriend was a player. He cared a lot about you – but not enough to settle down and fall in love with you. Back on the market, you want to know how to make a player fall in love with you.
In this post, you will learn if a Casanova can fall in love. And I’ll share 5 simple tips to make a player fall in love with you.
Is It Possible for a Player to Fall in Love?
Yes, it’s possible for a player to feel Love and Fall in love. Believe it or not, players aren’t born womanizers. Many of these men were nice guys at one point in their lives.
A man becomes a player if the woman he loved hurt him somehow – cheated and broke his heart. And as a result, he builds fences around his heart. Dates multiple women at once and doesn’t let anyone get close again.
For a Casanova to Fall in Love, he has to want to change. Players get excited by “the chase” – the pursuit of women. And are addicted to the challenge of sleeping with many women. For a player to change, he has to be excited – and be challenged – by one woman only.
Here’s how You Can Win a Player’s Heart
Don’t make the Player a Priority.
So many women make the mistake of making a player a priority in their life. A player wants you chasing after him. He wants to be the center of your life so he can continue to string you along.
You change this dynamic by Not Prioritizing your player. Spend time with your friends and put your social life first. For example, if you have plans with your friends and your player calls to hang out. Don’t Cancel Your Plans. Tell him you would love to see him, but you already have plans.
When he sees you’re not making him the center of your life, he’ll begin to question his approach and view you differently. This is a good thing. You want your player to see that you’re different from other women.
Don’t Play Games
Casanova is very manipulative with women. These men have made many women fall for their games. Do Not Play His Games.
Players are great conversationalists. In fact, players use a technique to build attraction and a connection with women by making a woman feel heard.
For example, if a player notices you looking upset, he will ask about your day; maybe you had a stressful day at work, and he will allow you to vent. You begin to feel heard and attracted to him when you talk and express yourself.
Once he feels you’re connected, he will steer the conversation toward intimacy. Don’t fall for this game.
Instead, don’t tell him too much about yourself and when he attempts to steer the conversation to sex, bring the conversation back on topic. Ask him about his passions and goals and not the surface-level subjects. Try to get to know him on a deeper level.
Do Not Sleep With Him
If you want to be looked at differently than all the other women your player has been with, you mustn’t sleep with him.
Intimacy is viewed, by players, as the reward for conquering a woman. A woman who can resist sleeping with him right away is seen as a challenge. Once you give in to him and sleep with him, he’ll no longer pursue you because you’re no longer a challenge. He’s gotten what he wanted.
You will be like all the other women.
So, if you want a player to fall in love, you shouldn’t have sex with him. Make him invest in getting to know you. Challenge him to plan dates if he wants to spend time with you.
Teach him how you would like to be treated, and don’t be afraid to cut a date short if he doesn’t show you respect.
Don’t Tell a Player How Much You Like Him
Casanovas are very charming and manipulative people. You shouldn’t tell a player how much you like him. He will use your feelings against you.
If he knows how much you like him, he will test you to see what he can get away with. Your Casanova will make last-minute plans to see you for sex. Or he’ll violate your boundaries.
If you want a player to fall for you, you mustn’t tell him you like him. Keep him guessing. After every date, he should wonder if you’re interested.
Only after he has invested in getting to know you – by planning dates, sharing passions and life goals, and going out of his way to know you deeply – do you show him how much you like him.
Takeaway
You’ve always been drawn to the player type of guy. But you never could get the player type to commit to you.
You’ve never been able to get past his Casanova persona to know the person behind the facade.
Now that you’ve learned how to make a player fall in love with you by:
- Not Making Him a Priority
- Not Playing Games
- Not Sleeping With Him
- Not Telling Him How Much You Like Him
Your player will view you differently from other women. To him, you will be a woman worth investing in and someone he could settle down with.
It’s time for you to apply what you’ve learned and have a player falling in love with you.
If you liked this post, check out Why Men Become Players and learn how nice guys become womanizers.
