Your 5-year relationship just ended. You feel hurt, resentful, and unsure of yourself.
Just four years prior, you thought your ex was the love of your life, your true love. But fate had other plans.
Before you put yourself back in the dating pool and begin your search for your soulmate, there are a few things you need to address first.
In this post, I will share with you the 4 things you need to do before you can find your true love.
To Find True Love You Must Be Open to Being Loved.
A lot of women meet great guys and enter relationships with these men. But because these women aren’t open to being loved, those relationships never become significant and end.
Why?
When a woman has a closed heart and isn’t open to being loved, she pushes men away. Your heart becomes shut when you’re in a relationship with the wrong person. And you recognize this man isn’t right for you, but you stay in the relationship, giving your all to make it work until you become resentful of Mr. Wrong.
As a result of resentment for your ex, Mr. Wrong, and hurt feelings, you vow not to let anyone get this close to you again.
So, you build walls and put barbed wire around your heart. But these actions repel guys that could be your true love.
Let go of the past. Have closure because you become one step closer to meeting your true love by ending a toxic relationship with an open heart.
Again, if you want to meet your true love or soulmate, you must be open to being loved.
Learn Yourself
Many times when a woman has been in a long-term relationship, she can lose herself in that relationship. Love is intoxicating, and when a woman loves a man, she will do anything to show her love.
Sometimes to the detriment of her own identity. So, when your relationship ends, you must learn yourself. Understand the person you have become now. What are your likes and dislikes? Have things about you changed? What new things about yourself have you learned?
Learning about the person you have become will help you date men that are complementary to yourself. Take the necessary time you need to figure yourself out.
This tip is so crucial that you shouldn’t start dating again until you know yourself. And you know what you want in a man.
Build Your Confidence
Confidence is attractive, and many men are drawn to confident women. But often, when you’ve been in a long-term relationship, and that relationship ends, you can lack confidence.
When you’re on the rebound, you must take dating slowly. Instead of dating to meet your true love or soulmate, date as a way to boost your confidence. I’m not referring to booty calls here. Date a guy to be his friend first and have no relationship expectations. Just enjoy the courtship. Let him build your confidence.
Once you are confident in your ability to attract a man, you naturally want to seek more significant soul connections with men.
Be Yourself to find true love
Always Be yourself. The only way you’ll ever know a guy is right for you or is your true love is if you show him who you are.
We have all been told that you should show the best version of yourself on a date or meeting someone new. This is true! But you shouldn’t be dating a guy for 6 months and still showing him your representative.
Be your authentic self. If you want to know if a guy is your true love, start revealing yourself to him. Show him the good, bad, and ugly sides of you. If he still loves you after you show him the real you, he could be your true love.
The only way you’ll know for sure is by being yourself.
The Takeaway
Now that you understand what you need to address to find true love.
- Be Open to being Loved
- Learn Yourself
- Build Your Confidence
- Be Yourself
It’s time for you to take action and apply what you’ve learned. Become a better version of yourself to attract your true love.
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